False Narratives in Relationships and Loss of Self

False Narratives in Relationships and Loss of Self

We all tell ourselves stories. Some are empowering, helping us make sense of our lives, while others are harmful such as gaslighting in relationships, distorting reality and keeping us stuck. In relationships, whether romantic, familial or friendships—false narratives...
Cultivating Healing: The Connection Between Gardening and EMDR

Cultivating Healing: The Connection Between Gardening and EMDR

As a therapist and a passionate gardener, I’ve found profound connections between the art of tending to my native prairie and the therapeutic practice of EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Both activities not only bring me joy but also offer...
Letting Go

Letting Go

Have you noticed yet that you have a storyteller in your head? If you are with me on this one, have you observed what kind of stories that storyteller is telling you? Is it using kind words, like “it is going to be ok,” “well done,” “great job,” or “breathe, you got...
Forest Bathing to Boost Mental Health

Forest Bathing to Boost Mental Health

The first time I heard the term forest bathing I wondered what new idea was being hatched. Visions of tubs and showers came to mind. This concept made more sense after I switched thought gears to the idea of soaking in nature. So, what is forest bathing? Forest...
Growing Old Ain’t For Wimps: Aspirations For Active Aging

Growing Old Ain’t For Wimps: Aspirations For Active Aging

Achieved the milestone of becoming a senior citizen, I have been slowly letting the concept of being “old” sink in. My 50th high school reunion is this year (50th!!!). I feel like I need a plan for growing old gracefully, or maybe just growing old with intention. We...